Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Kitchen, kitchen, where’s my kitchen?

Farmhouse Remodel: Kitchen update

Where’s my kitchen? Underneath all that grime! Like a diamond in the rough, we slowly chip away until the beauty is revealed. We’re getting there. Really we are!


Through sweat, a great deal of elbow grease, and a couple of asthma attacks, finally, we actually see progress.

Here are a few photos of before, during, and up-to-now. Keep in mind that the kitchen is a work in progress.

If you have any suggestions feel free to share, especially those of you who have experience in remodeling a old home like this-over 100 years old. She’s around 112 years old now.


 The beadboard walls go up.


New countertops I built.Thanks to my dear hubby for cutting all the concrete backer board and carrying it around for me. I designed the countertops, and he did the hard labor. He's a dear!


Cleaned and painted a crisp white.

 
Below Photo: Laying out the tile for my next big kitchen project. Tiling the countertops. 

Well, that's all the photos for now. I'll share more later in the week.

Special thanks to Josh F. and Josh M. for helping so much in the kitchen remodel and elsewhere!



Blessings,

Stephanie Boles
Author of the Called to His Purpose series, not to mention farmhouse remodeler! ; -)
Writing is my ministry, not my job



Friday, May 25, 2012

Farmhouse Remodel: Kitchen Photo Update & Lessons Learned

Before Photo: This photograph shows the farmhouse kitchen just after we began cleaning the house and preparing to remodel it. I know, yuck!

 Before Photo: The pantry, hoarded to the gills.
In Progress: The pantry in progress. Empty and almost clean and ready for beadboard walls and ceiling, and new door cut into laundry room. Afterward, I build shelves in pantry.

In Progress: The kitchen in progress. We've added beadboard on walls and above base cabinets. I built new countertops and we've completed the prep work for tiling which I'll do after my daughter and I finish painting the walls and cabinets.

I'd like to say a big THANKS to the two fellows who have helped so much in the kitchen. They put up beadboard and did sundry other tasks. Thanks again, Josh and Josh. You two are a blessing to this ole gal!

For more before photos click on this link. Be warned, it's not a pretty sight! http://s669.photobucket.com/albums/vv54/StephanieBoles/Farmhouse%20Remodel/

Lessons Learned:
Hire a cleaning crew. Allowing a crew to do the dirty work is less frustrating than trying to clean out a hoarder house as a family project.

Do any research necessary to project before the day's work. This way you won't have to stop working to dash home and check 'YouTube' how-to videos.

If you feel frustrated walk away from the project and get some fresh air. You'll come back feeling less troubled about the mess you're dealing with.

As we progress, I'll add carpentry lessons learned and the like.

Blessings,

Stephanie Boles
Author of the Called to His Purpose series
Writing is my ministry, not my job

Zahara Jasmine, our toy poodle.

 Jasmine in her first doggy outfit: 8 weeks old. These are few photos of Zahara Jasmine, our toy poodle. She's such a wonderful part of the family. We love her dearly. More photos to come.

 Jasmine gets a kiss.

 Jasmine's first snow.

 Jasmine's first grooming.

 Jasmine eats whistle!

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Nurture Your Writing Ministry


Today’s post is my contribution to the Christian Writers Blog Chain. Our theme for the month of May is-Nurture.



This post is long, bear with me, please?
How does a writer nurture a writing ministry?  
First let’s look at the meaning of the word nurture—to feed and protect, also to support and encourage. Having recently celebrated Mother’s Day, the word nurture is a fresh reminder of a mother’s loving and protective care for her children. But, you might ask, how does a mother’s care relate to Christian writing?
Christian writers labor for God.

Labor takes time.
Writers should protect (or guard) their writing time well!
The enemy of our souls (Satan) will do whatever he can to steal a Christian writer’s focus from writing. As a result, that writer loses precious writing time. Often Satan accomplishes this by presenting legitimate projects that interrupt or hinder writing. Too many times these projects come packaged in the form of church work. While I understand that Christians should lay their hands to help in church ministries, they must also learn to balance church work with writing. Would a doctor give his/her workday to complete church work? I don't think so. Why should a work-from-home writer give up his/her writing time in order to complete church work or other projects?
Should writer’s not guard the time it takes to execute a writing ministry with the same single-minded purpose that a mother shows when protecting her children from harm?
God expresses in Matthew 23:37 “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the one who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!” Using this text to represent nurturing a writing ministry may seem a stretch, but not really, if you consider the comparison of a mother hen and her chicks. Is a mother hen much different than a human mother when caring for her young? When threatened, a hen instinctively gathers her biddies under her wings, and does everything within her power to protect them, just as a mother might her children.
If we consider our Christian writing a ministry then we understand that God instructs us to minister for him. A ministry should be nurtured, protected from the attacks or hindrances of Satan. Christian writers suffer the fiery darts of the enemy just as pastors, teachers, evangelists, and others who have a ‘call to minister’. Do not be deceived, anything that steals time from or interrupts the work God has called you to should be considered a strategy of the enemy to hinder that ministry. It is never prudent to become a ‘yes man’ within the body of Christ in order to please Christian brothers and sisters, for therein one’s focus for the call of God is often lost.
Time is a precious commodity. If Christian writers squander writing time, how can they successfully achieve the ministry God has called them to complete? Further still, Christians, including ministers, must account their actions to the Lord.
I’ve learned to ask myself this question. Do I use my time wisely? Consider the Bible text about sowing and reaping. The only way to harvest in ministry is to focus wholly on that ministry-sowing time and effort into the ministry. I was recently, and somewhat shamefacedly, reminded of the necessity NOT to squander my days on projects that eat up my writing time. I did not guard my writing ministry, as it were. Allow me to clarify.
A situation arose wherein I took a monthly church project upon myself. My only consideration was to help in a time of need as I love my brothers and sisters in Christ and long to offer a helping hand where I can. In actuality, I should have stepped back and said, “I’m sorry, no, I haven’t the time.” I did not, likely because I’m still learning not to be a people pleaser. Sigh. . . I truly did not consider the impact this monthly project would have upon my writing. The project took a large chunk of my time and my energy. As a result, my writing suffered. Although this was a worthy project, I simply didn’t have time to dedicate to it. It was a ministry project better taken on by the person called to accomplish it. Knowing I could not allow said project to hinder my writing ministry further, I gave it up.
Lesson learned: Guard my writing ministry, not only from overt attacks but also from tasks, such as worthwhile church projects or ministries that God has not called me to undertake, and that interrupt my work for the Lord, i.e. my writing ministry.
I’m not perfect. God daily teaches me to do his will. I’m yet learning to manage my time well as I focus on my writing ministry.
When I took on that monthly church project I failed to guard my writing ministry against a major interruption. I pray that, in the future, I will better manage my time as I fulfill the work that God has called me to accomplish for him. In other words, I’ll just say no to outside interferences that steal my given writing time. I must guard the writing ministry God has entrusted to my keeping as vehemently as a mother hen does her chicks; with the same passion that God showed in Matthew 23:37.
Everyone has a place in the body of Christ—even Christian writers. God uses writers to minister his gospel just as aptly as he does pastors who preach the gospel from their pulpits. Guard your writing ministry and do not allow anyone to place hindrances before it. If God has called you to it, you are his minister.
So . . . WRITE.
What are some of the ways that you nurture your writing ministry?

Was there ever a time that you failed to nurture, to guard against the hindrances of the enemy, concerning your writing ministry?
Bible Text:
O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the one who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing! (Matthew 23:37, NKJV)
10 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.
11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; (Ephesians 6: 10-18, KJV)
7 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. 8 For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life. (Galatians 6:7-8, NKJV)
Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God: thy spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness. (Psalms 143:3, KJV)
Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc.

Blessings,
Stephanie Boles
Author of the Called to His Purpose series
Writing is my ministry, not my job
The theme for the ChristianWriters.com blog chain for May is "nurture." Click on the following links and enjoy what my friends write about this month’s theme.

5/1: Mike Johnson, The College Field Manual
5/2: Chris Henderson, TheWriteChris
5/4: Bill Jones, I Was Thinking the Other Day About
5/5: Stephen Olar, Snickerdoodles
5/6: Nona King, Spirit Driven Fiction
5/8: Keith Wallis, wordsculptures 5/9: Victor Travison, Lightwalker's View
5/10: Pegg Thomas, The Sheepish Scribe
5/11: Carol Peterson, From Carol's Quill
5/12: Deborah K. Anderson, Faith, Fiction, and Unvarnished Truth
5/13: Lynn Mosher, Heading Home
5/14: Marina Rojas Run for the Prize
5/15: Terrie Thorpe, Light for the Journey
5/16: Kristena Tunstall, Mommy’s Angel In Heaven
5/17: Tracy Krauss, Expression Express
5/18: Edward Lewis, Sowing the Seeds
5/19: Traci Bonney, Tracings
5/20: Brian Jones, Andeluvia
5/21: SandiGrace, Heart Gazer
5/22: Stephanie Boles, 80 Acres and a Book This one is me!
5/23: Carol Peterson, From Carol's Quill
5/24: Israel Ikhinmwin, Education Made Simple
5/25: Pauline Creeden, Hosanna's Christian Reader
5/26: Samuel R. Choy, Samuel R. Choy
5/27: Nona King, Word Obsession
5/28: Joseph Lalonde, Joseph Lalonde
5/29: Chris Vonada, I'm Just Thinkin'
5/30: Marilyn, Life 101: Understanding It All
5/31: Jacky Brown, JayBees Blog